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Does The G-Spot Exist?

Myth 1: The G-Spot Doesn’t Really Exist.

A recent study found physical evidence of this elusive erogenous zone: women who were able to achieve vaginal orgasm had thicker-than-average tissue between the vagina and the urethra. Whether this area is a magic orgasm-inducing button for you depends on your sensitivity, says Dr Beverly Whipple, co-author of The Orgasm Answer Guide.

"Lie on your back and have your partner (or yourself) use one or two fingers to stimulate the upper front wall of your vagina with a 'come here' motion,” she says. Hit the right spot and within 10 seconds, you'll know it. During vaginal intercourse, try rear entry or woman on top – both put his penis in a position to hit the jackpot.

Myth 2: Men Can’t Have More Than One Climax

Myth 3: Size matters

A bigger penis doesn't necessarily make sex more mind-blowing. For one, it won't help a guy reach your G-spot, and it could actually be painful if his penis hits your cervix during sex. If his length is lacking, stick to positions that keep you close together (such as missionary), have him use a grinding rather than thrusting movement, and wrap your legs around him for extra clitoral stimulation. Got a bigger boy? Woman-on-top positions (like reverse cowgirl) let you control the depth of his stroke.

Making Her Naked

Making Her Naked

Marissa Montgomery, founder of UK lingerie line Pussy Glamore, shows you how to artfully take off her stockings

by Men's Health

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1

Take a seat and position her standing with her back to you. Stroke her legs, then playfully tug at her suspenders. What you’re really doing is divining how they’re attached without appearing anything less than masterful.

2

Tackling the back ones first means she won’t notice any slight fumbles. The clasp comprises a hook and stopper. Slip your thumb behind the stopper
and slide up and loosen from the hook to free the stocking.

3

Turn her around to kiss her stomach and thighs again and repeat the process with the clasps on the front. Some have simple tension clasps that you can just pull apart. Which means more time for the next bit.

4

Once she’s unclipped, lay her down on the bed and stand or kneel so you can lift her leg to your chest. Start at the top of the stocking and slowly roll it down. Don’t pull from the foot as this warps the material.

5

Now do the same for the other leg. This technique gives you a full and tantalising view of the big unveiling and having her straighten her leg will give it a noticeably flattering shape. She will certainly notice.

6

Whether you remove the suspender belt is a matter of taste. Reach underneath and pull her up to arch her lower back. The clasp will be like the one on her bra, so this should be familiar territory.

Touch Her Here

Touch Her Here

3 places you should touch her

by Kiera Aaron
Mens Health
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Think your office is weird? Try working with a bunch of researchers who touch rat clitorises all day.

Research presented at this summer’s World Science Festival found that clitoral stimulation activates the same brain areas in rats as in humans, even when they don’t have hormones.

OK, that’s interesting, but to activate the areas between her ears, you’ll need to do some work between her legs. Here are three things you should know about the orgasm-powerhouse.
It’s not part of foreplay

“The woman should be warmed-up first,” explains Ian Kerner, Ph.D., and author of She Comes First. “Don’t go straight for the clitoris.” And no, 2 minutes of kissing is NOT foreplay. Start by kissing her nipples and gradually work your way south. Increasing blood flow to the pelvic area first will make her less sensitive—and more passionate—when you reach the clitoris.
Stop thinking of it as a little bump

“There are thousands of nerve endings behind the head of the clitoris, and they extend throughout the pelvic area.” So, you shouldn’t think of her orgasms in terms of “clitoral orgasms,” “vaginal orgasms,” or “g-spot orgasms.” The clitoris is behind all of them. In fact, researchers think that the g-spot is an extension of the clitoris. (Cool huh?)

On that note, don’t limit your activity to the head of the clitoris. Next time you give her oral, try focusing on the area millimeters above it. “This area has a lot of nerve endings, too,” says Kerner.
Forget what you’ve seen in porn

Slow and steady is the way to go. “Find a slow, persistent rhythm that works,” says Kerner. And stick with it. “Women need to disconnect and relax in order to orgasm,” he says.” If you keep changing your tongue (or finger) technique—which is common in porn—you’ll break her relaxation and she won’t be able to let-go and climax.

GIRLY CONFFESIONS

GIRLY CONFFESIONS

By rock4angel on Monday, 26 September 2011

1. Do you sleep in your bra?
- Nope

2. Do you sleep with socks on?
- In winter, yes

3. Would you rather sleep alone or with someone else?
- When it's cold, just for a little bit. Otherwise, I need my space

4. Do you enjoy drama?
- Mmm, when I'm not involved, ja

5. Are you a girly girl?
- In a sense, yes...

6. Who was the last person you hugged?
- Aww, no one (strangely enough), ! :)

7. Small or large purses?
- Large-ish

8. Are you short?
- ha ha. Yes

9. Do you like somebody?
- Yes, but does distance really count?! P.S. Elli, YOU DO!

10.Does your Facebook password have to do with a boy?
- Oh, please. No

11. Do you care if your socks are dirty?
- Yes

12. Do you think you’re conceited?
No

13. Do you dress up on Halloween?
- For a Halloween party, yes

14. Are you double jointed?
- In some of my fingers ;P

15. Where is the weirdest place you have slept?
Uhm... In a cupboard when I was little

16. Has anyone touched/smacked your butt in the past 24 hours?
- lol yes

17. Is there any type of rumour going around about you?
- I would hope not. 10-1 there isn't

18. Do you call anybody by their last name?
- Yes! :)

19. How many guys will read this just because it says- Girl Confessions?
- I'm guessin none. They're too full of themselves

1. What color is your bra that your wearing?
- Black and pink

2. Do you prefer light or dark haired guys?
- gosh, I dunno...

3. Are you currently frustrated with a boy?
- Aren't I always!?

4.What's one thing a guy can do to make you like them?
- Be confident and easily make me laugh

5. Do you have a best friend?
- Yes :) Cynthia
6. Have you ever had your heart broken?
- I guess so

7. Have you ever thought of having plastic surgery?
- Thought, yes. Thought rationally about it, no

8. Do you like your life?
- Alot of the time

10. Has one of your friends ever stolen a boyfriend from you?
- Nope, I've got normal friends :)

11. Have you ever jumped in the pool with your clothes on?
- Yup

12. Do you have more friends that are girls or boys?
- Girls. Though it used to be more boys back in the day

13. How long have you had a facebook?
- About a year only?!

14. Have you ever slapped a boy in the face?
- Ah, i wish

15. What are your biggest fears?
- Being alone; and I think every girl's biggest fear, too horrible to even write down: gettin ra...

16. Have you ever cried yourself to sleep?
- Too many times

17. Have you ever not been able to get someone off of your mind?
-Again, too many times! Rather irritating

18. Do you believe in the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater?"
yes

19. Have you ever had a good feeling about something?
- Hmm... not too sure about that one

20. Do you ever wish you were famous?
- Who wouldn't want to be

21. Are you currently missing someone?
- Quite a few "someones" actually

THIS GUY OR THAT GUY? MUST PICK ONE

Cowboy or Gangster?
Lol gangster

Preppy or Punk/Goth?
Preppy

Face or Body?
Ah tough one...uhm... Face, it's what u have to look at 24/7

Good cook or take you out a lot?
Good Cook, since I can't cook

Sweet or Sexy?
Sweet



DO IT, its a girl survey.


04. Pumps or flats?
- Aren't they the same?! Pumps

05. Skirts or pants?
- Skirts

06. Socks or leggings?
- Socks

07. Hoodies or jackets?
- Hoodies

08. Heels or sneakers?
- Sneakers... but every girl loves her heels! so this is a silly question

09. Straight or curly hair?
Lol depends on the weather.
10. Hoop or dangling earrings?
- Hoops!

11.Do you think your pretty, honestly?
- Not really hey

12.Boots or Flip Flops?
- Boots!



IN A GUY...

Funny or Serious?
Funny!

Romantic or Daredevil?
Romantic


Long Hair or Short Hair?
Short Hair please

Curly Hair or Straight Hair?
Straight

Clean-cut or Rough?
Hmm... Bit of both?! lol


Smoker or Non-smoker?
Non-smoker!!!

Drunk or Sober?
Seriously now?!?! SOBER, come on!


Ever walked into the guy's bathroom?
Yup...

Do you think best friends can be replaced?
No one can ever be replaced

Does the last person you held hands with mean a lot?
Who did I last hold hands with?!?!?!

Do you think you have made a difference in anyone's life?
I hope to make a difference in people's lives

What friend do you tell the most?
Gosh, my problem: I tell too many people too many things :)

Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with?
Cynthia - boo!!! some deep stuff... (-CLICK) - HAHAHA :)

Are you waiting for anyone's call or text right now?
Nope... sad isn't it?!

Are you good at hiding your feelings?
Uhm, yes

How is life going for you right now?
Good!

Do you trust people easily?
Yes

Do you give out second chances easily?
Yes

Do you smile a lot?
Yes... when in good company

How do you feel about change?
Change is important and exciting

Have you ever cried from being so mad?
yes... oh yes!

Are you happy?
Lol well Yes, for now at least

5 Things To Know About Her Orgasm

5 Things To Know About Her Orgasm

Cheeky tips to ensure she enjoys a thrilling ride!

by Debby Herbenick

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When the clothes come off, speak up!

Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive. Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked -- and you do, right? -- share the news.

Always be tender on top

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup.

Learn her keystrokes

One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it. Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation -- most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons -- her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone -- and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

Change your angle

Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on.

Use moves that multi-task

To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild. Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration. Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most.